It all started one summer after we had our lightsaber fight ala Star Wars, owned by Kuya Val and Kuya Butch, Kuya Ruben and I sat under a coconut tree and started sharing stories. I can’t remember the most of the details of our talk but I remember I saw tons of shooting stars that night and we went back to our separate rooms almost 3 in the morning. Madaladal talaga yan si kuya! haha.
I was obsessed then with Brandon Routh and I asked Kuya if he thinks if Brandon will like me if he knew me in person. He gave me that serious look with matching kunot ng noo and answered, “Oo naman, bakit naman hindi.” BWHAHAHAHA. I knew then that Kuya will be one of my life long friends.
A few months after the shooting star night, Kuya was in Baguio and he set up a date for me with Ate Ruth, his love life. It was my first time to be alone with Ate and I was so excited. She shared more details of what Kuya told me about their love story. I went home that night feeling good and wanting that kind of love story too. I can’t remember though when I started calling them mother and father and imposed that I’m their adopted daughter, but I smile whenever in between conversation they will say, “yang mother mo, or yang father mo.”
After Kuya Ruben proposed, they asked me to be their wedding coordinator and I gladly said yes with tambling and split. It was raining hard on their wedding day so we had to make a lot of major adjustments because of the weather. Tipong naghaheart attack na ako, and yet they were very calm. So in spite of the stress, the wedding was so beautiful and feel good.
When Angel and I started to be extra close I told them about my apprehensions and concerns, and they were very honest with me with theirs too. They were not surprised when I told them that Angel and I started praying for each other. I remember we were in Kuya’s car and Angel called my phone, after talking to him Kuya said, “nag-iiba boses mo pag kausap mo si Angel.” I replied, “Panong nag-iiba, ummarte?” and we both started laughing.

Withe the Ortezas
So when Angel and I started to make plans to get married I told them that we are getting them as principal sponsors. They said no. HAHAHAHA. That was last year.
A month ago after Angel and I finalized the date, I sent a text message to Kuya to inform him that he’ll play a major part in our wedding. He replied, “Your mother and I needs to meet you first.” BWHAHAHA.

Last night I finally got my answer. This were the exact words of Kuya, “Papayag naman talaga kami. Gusto ka lang namin pahirapan.” BWHAHAHAHAHAHA. I just love this couple. Last night was a very fun breather for me. I told them how God has been moving in our lives, the lessons that He has been teaching us while we were waiting and they shared to me how things changes when you’re living together and why quitting should not never be an option. I wished Angel was with us to hear their stories, the last time we had a group date was in 2009, but he’ll have plenty of chance soon.
It was almost 5 years ago when I witnessed their beautiful wedding. And now they’ll witness mine, which I pray that it’ll be as beautiful as theirs. The fact that they said yes made me more excited. It was an affirmation for us that we’re on the right tract in spite of the humps and bumps of the preps. Ang saya saya ko lang talaga.
Thank you adopted parents we <3 you.